As a documentary family photographer, one of the most common things parents ask me is: “How do you get our toddler to smile without bribing them?”

And it’s a great question. Toddlers are wild cards—adorable, curious, sometimes chaotic, but always full of emotion. The good news? You don’t need props, toys, or snacks to get authentic smiles. You just need a little patience, a calm environment, and the right approach.

Here’s how I capture genuine joy and connection during family photo sessions—without staged grins or sugary bribes…